*CLOSING CYCLES*

One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through.

Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters – whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished.

*Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you leave your parents’ house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden?*

You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened.

*Things pass and the best we can do is to let them really go away.*

That is why it is so important (however painful it may be) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home.

*Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts – and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.*

Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them. Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.

Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back.

Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person – nothing is irreplaceable, a habit is not a need. This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.

*Not Because of Pride, Incapacity or Arrogance, But Simply because that No Longer Fits Your Life. Stop Being Who You WERE and Change Into WHO YOU ARE…*

by *Paulo Coelho*

–Stay tuned and keep smiling 😊

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LAW OF ATTRACTION?

The Law of attraction is one of life’s greatest secrets. The Law of Attraction can be understood by understanding that ‘like attracts like’. Exceptionally few individuals are completely mindful of how much of an affect the Law of attraction has on their day to day life. Whether we are doing it intentionally or unconsciously, each moment of our presence, we are acting as human magnets sending out our thoughts and emotions and attracting back more of what we have put out.

4 years back, I caught wind of law of attraction; it was extremely persuading to me at that point to go in the profundity I tried to search for more through books, internet search to have clear thought regarding this subject. The more I dug the more I become enlightened of how profound its effect in my life is. It pulls in energy in your musings, sentiments. You turn out to be more positive or certain to accomplish the want result or wish.

Now and then, in our life we battle to accomplish the want result nightfall of diligent work yet at the same time not upbeat, don’t feel fulfilled. It could be on the grounds that we want the outcome or we expect a considerable measure however we don’t put all our vitality, considerations into that specific errand to accomplish the level of fulfillment.

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Unfortunately, there are still so many of us blind to the potential that is locked deep within us. Consequently, it is all too easy to leave your thoughts and emotions unchecked. This sends out the wrong thoughts and attracts more unwanted emotions and events into your life.

Having said this, finding that the Law of attraction is at work inside your life ought to be an incredible cause for celebration! Once the power of attraction has been caught on by you it is no longer mystery. Furthermore, you have learned how to successfully apply these to your regular life, your whole future is yours to make.

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STEPS HOW TO START USING THE LAW OF ATTRACTION IN YOUR LIFE

-There are dozens of different ways of incorporating your knowledge of the Law of Attraction into your everyday life, letting your new skills shape your day from morning to night. While that might sound like an overwhelming undertaking, the truth is that simple changes have powerful consequences when you’re working with the Law of Attraction. After a few weeks of practicing your new approach, much of it will become second nature.

RELAX YOUR MIND & SOUL

-Mental health can really impact your physical health and wellbeing. Therefore, you should decrease any levels of stress as soon as you can. In addition, The Law of Attraction focuses on this idea of self-confidence and faith in the universe. You need to let go off all feelings of doubt in yourself in order to utilize The Law of Attraction effectively. Relax your mind and try to meditate for minimum 10-15min. to gather your soul and mind together to achieve peace, positivity and increase brain power.

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ASK THE UNIVERSE FOR IT

-Keep in mind that you’re sending a demand to the Universe which is made by contemplation and along these lines reacts to musings. Know precisely what it is that you need. In case you’re not clear/beyond any doubt, the Universe will get a misty recurrence and will send you undesirable outcomes. So make sure it is something you have solid excitement for.

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WRITE YOUR WISH DOWN

-Begin with “I am so cheerful and thankful now that…” and complete the sentence (or passage) telling the Universe what it is that you need. Compose it in the current state as though you have it at the present time. Dodge nullification terms (see Warnings for additional on this). Consistently until the point when your desire works out, close your eyes and envision your want as though it’s going on the present moment and see your creative ability turning more clearer.

FEEL IT –YOU HAVE ACHIEVED

-Feel the way you will now in the wake of getting your desire. You should act, talk, and think as though you are getting it now. This is really the most imperative, capable advance in utilizing the Law of Attraction since this is the place it begins working, and now and then on the off chance that you do this you don’t feel like you require it any longer since you have an inclination that you as of now have it! In this way, the universe will show this idea and believing, and you will get it.

HAVE FAITH IN UNIVERSE

-See yourself in that measurement, where whatever you approach the Universe for comes to you in a moment. Try not to get agitated if these things don’t occur promptly. Try not to pressure the “how” of things. Give the Universe a chance to do it for you. When you accept the Universe’s position of agonizing over the “how”, this says you need confidence and that you’re instructing the Universe when the Universe has far more prominent information and power than human humankind.

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“ when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” Paulo Coelho

— Stay tuned for upcoming blogs until then stay happy and keep smiling🐾🐾

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EXPLORE AUCKLAND UNDER $10 NZD

Auckland, appraised as the third most liveable city in the world. It is a dynamic city with luscious lifestyle style and panoramic scenes that leave every spectator breathless and awed. Then again, Auckland or AKL is beamed among the world’s most costly urban areas.

Every time I and friends planned to go out on the town in between school terms only because we want to have some life out of our busy schedules from part time jobs to term papers, we almost always winded up giving reasons. It is rather relevant to reconsider and for most reason, we have a very limited pocket cash to spare for fun and adventure.

While on the other hand, there are numerous international students in AKL who are just oblivious and wasting cash by spending in whatever they first see accessible as a result of no knowledge or lack thereof of the city’s hidden gems.

All in all, by what means can be played around to manage a restricted pocket money or tight spending?

Well! Well! Try not to stress! There are still a lot of things which do not cost more than $10 bucks and that is proven from our experience.

Inner City Transport (the Green Bus)– $1.00

The innerlink Bus is the easiest way to get around Auckland’s inner areas with just $1.00 per person and $0.50 (if you have AT hop card). The buses are painted in bright green and the best thing is timetables are not required.

Here are some fantastic spots offering art, culture, entertainment and shopping that will be on your innerlink route.

• Auckland Museum

• victoria Park

• Skycity

• Queen street

Happy hours -$5 per beer/wine.

They say “keep calm and go to happy hour”.

It truly works for me and my companions. When we are exceptionally occupied the whole day at work, we simply love an escape to a wonderful spots and reward ourselves with shoddy liquor. After all, all work and no play – where’s the fun in that?

Here are some of my most loved spots to hang out with in the company of good friends:

• Neptune café and bar @Princes wharf

happy hours- beer or wine $5.

• Box café and Bar @ Aotea Square

Happy hours-beer or wine $7.

• The culpeper @Princes Wharf

Happy hours-Beer or wine $5.

Food -from $5

Food, everyone’ s favourite thing in the world.

After a full day at uni or work, we are obviously worn out. We don’t have any desire to cook and frightened to shake the financial plan with $30 or $40 of food conveyance.

The following section is the rundown of plenty alternatives accessible in the city under $10 to fulfill out mouse in the tummy:

• Fish n chips- from $5

• Dominos -from $5

• McDonald’s meals -from $5

• Kebabs – from $6

• Pie -from $4

• Sub of the day – from $5

• Food court options – from $7

Timezone games @ queen street-from $1

Wanna kill time or just a past time entertainment? Timezone is the universally adored spot of all ages, children or grown-ups alike. They offer different but adrenaline-fed diversions to draw in the each age bunches from just $1.

Explore panoramic view for FREE

Need some serene or alone time? Auckland Princes wharf/viaduct harbour is the place to be. There are a lot of perfect spots to unwind or tune in to music, finish a home work, or snap excellent pictures!

Walk with nature

Albert park is one of Auckland’s most imperative parks. It is situated at the core of AKL CBD with soothing and relaxing greenery enclosures.

Victoria Park is a recreational center and games ground in Auckland city. During summer, it truly is an incredible place to spend your nighttimes or mornings. Awesome tracks for walking or running 🏃 or even sunbathing.

< strong>Ice cream spots-from $1<<<<
ream is the best treat under low spending plan. Here are a few choices which will fulfill your longing of sweet taste buds:

• McDonald’s , soft cone -$1

• Movenpick -$6.20

• Ben n jerry-$4.50

Ride and Explore<<<<
ng a bike in Auckland is fun. There are special tracking lane exclusively for bikes 🚲 here like, pink track or mission bay track, waterfront ride track.

Hire -Next bike -$4/1hr

Overall, Auckland is so much of a diverse and interesting city to explore. It only comes to knowing the good places to go to and activities to choose from to be able to appreciate it more.

We hope that the above simple tips will get anyone to start exploring this wonderful city. Stay tune for up and coming blogs🐾

An affair with Christian Grey

Relationships are hard. One-sided relationship is even harder. But we grow out of it regardless and we move on because there is no other way but to.

“The so called love story”

It started only just a wild 2-minute imagination, an innocent high-school-kind-of-crush. It never ever occurred to me that I will meet a guy like him, of course sans whips and canes.

When I first met him at work, i thought he was unbelievably beautiful of a human being and I was drawn to him in an instant.

He was young, successful and utterly drop-dead gorgeous. His built as lean as Jamie Dornan in Fifty Shades, a clean-shaven face and his eyes as blue as the sky. I can still recall his slightly crumpled pale blue shirt and faded jeans that ultimately brought my heart closer to home. I swore I could hear Anastasia Steele’s inner goddess screaming at me hotness overload.

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But I was halted from my sudden exaltation when I unintentionally eavesdropped: He was in a relationship and had a child.

Got me asking why are good ones always either gay or taken? I don’t know either.

From professional acquaintance, we turned out to be socially friendly with each other until I left that job and moved on in some parts of the city far from him.

But I was halted from my sudden exaltation when I unintentionally eavesdropped: He was in a relationship and had a child.

Fast forward one year, I was in bed with him. Wait, wait, wait. How did that happen?

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I visited an old colleague at one time and he suggested I say hello to Mr. Hottie because he asked about me on one occasion they met. So I obliged. Little did I know, that was the start of something neither of us expected.

We got too close one night, and I mean physically close, when I took a part time job for him. Let’s skip the intimate details part because it is just too overly precious. One thing relevant was, he was no longer in a relationship with his child’s mother.

During the course of our un-labeled relationship, I bravely asked quite a few times about my place in his life and he decided to respond lightly telling me, we’ll take it easy and just have fun together. We have time, he asserted.

The Revelation

Four months on after that night happened, it dawned on me that the more I see him the more i become seriously inclined to him, wanting to turn him officially part of my life. My friends and family have been ear-bled hearing his name in every conversation I initiated. Unfortunately, it was total opposite to his.

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One morning, I was awaken crying because of a bad dream. I dreamt that i was leaving him against my will and I was frantically heartbroken.

 I finally admitted it to myself. I have fallen in love with Mr. Grey.

 The catch is: He is not ready.

 When I told him this, he was grateful and flattered but it isn’t time for him, he revealed.

 The Aftermath

To everyone in my life, he is just right, if not perfect. The Mr. Right.

What they did not know is that I always beg for his time, his attention, his love. It’s always a competition whether who/which wins or lose. Sadly, I almost always end up shedding tears and tread the route to heartbreak alone

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He had so much on his plate. A career, his business plus his child to look after. A commitment was not part of his plan at that stage in his life. He was not even sure if he ever settles at all.

This broke my heart into million pieces. Because I wanted him so bad, so bad that it excruciatingly hurts.

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I am always that person who is regularly cautious and proud. My heart is protected with layers and layers of scars and healed wounds. I have never allowed myself to fall in love so easily but when i looked into his eyes, i am completely melted all over again.

For a time, I consented myself to having been treated like a doormat but the pain is just unspeakably excruciating I can feel my heart would burst any moment. I knew how to make it stop but I chose to take it in because I loved him.

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When a lightning finally struck, i realise it was time to put a stop doing that to myself.

The reason I left a previous relationship is because of the same reason and it is a total stupidity of me to go through it again.

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A woman has the unimaginable capacity to love and at most times, possesses the patience of a saint but once she has had enough, she walks away needless a word to say.

 From then, I started to love myself again and more this time.

It is when we know our worth only then can we fully love another person without expecting something in return.

Future unknown

Looking back, I still feel giddy and excited knowing i have met Mr. Grey once in my life. He ignites that youthful emotions in me that I didn’t know I still have considering my middle-aged self.

 There is no Mr. Perfect and fairy tales come true only on books.

I must admit I have not fully recovered, baby steps and I will get there. I hold no grudge nor anger towards him or his actions. He eventually turned out honest, raw and unfiltered about everything between us and i forgive myself from overly trusting and assuming.

Human emotions and expectations, if given extra unnecessary attention and analysis, may incur unwanted pain and suffering.

 As oddly as it sounds, I sometimes wish I will meet him again someday and hopefully he will choose me. Who knows what lies ahead? Besides, he still is as hot as pancake!

 For now, I aim to stay in love with myself and nurture a loving heart and mind.

—–based on a true story

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